Have you ever noticed everything in the world has an opposite ? For every up there is a down for every in there is an out for every high there is a low. I have noticed that when you think you are riding high on a happy is when you need to be the most careful because just over the top of your happy is a huge slide into a valley of sadness. When you think all is going well someone will be waiting there to trip so you fall. I have also noticed that some people when they themselves are having bad times rather then seek those that would help hold them up they would rather turn on those people to bring them down so they will feel bad too. It is almost like others pain somehow lessens their own pain.